When fear runs the show, I stay stuck.
Lately, I’ve felt that heaviness of hopelessness.
Everywhere I turn, it’s negative, anger, and division.
It’s easy to get glued to the noise, scrolling endlessly, feeling powerless.
But here’s the truth I keep coming back to:
I can’t control politics.
I can’t control people.
I can’t control the economy.
What I can control are my actions, my choices, and my response.
That realization takes me back to an early moment in recovery.
I remember walking into a meeting, still clinging to the belief that I was somehow different. I told myself my career, my achievements, my drive — all of it made me stand apart from the others in the room.
And then a guy looked at me dead in the eyes and said words that cut deep:
“You’re no different. You’re a drunk like the rest of us.”
It stung. Bad. But it also woke me up.
I realized that my thinking, the stories I was telling myself were what kept me separated. They weren’t protecting me; they were isolating me.
And isn’t that what fear does?
Fear keeps us divided.
Fear keeps us angry.
Fear keeps us stuck.
The moment I started hitting pause and asking myself, “What part do I have in how I’m feeling?” something shifted. Instead of waiting for the world to change, I started changing me.
I remembered: I’m not different. I’m human, just like everyone else.
And that’s where GRIT was born.
Growth – choosing to learn instead of blame.
Resilience – standing back up after setbacks.
Integrity – owning my part, even when it’s uncomfortable.
Tenacity – refusing to quit, even when it feels impossible.
Fear wants to run the show.
But when I choose GRIT
I take my power back.